Hii there,
A nice warm hii to the one who is reading this.I still do not know who that person will be.The one to whom I will handover my blog and all the posts because this is what is essentially me as many of my acquaintances do not understand me fully(Can I use yet here or does it sound desperate!!).Have you ever felt when there is no one in this entire world to understand and accept you as you are.Now accepting is one thing which can be done without or with less understanding but I always prefer some understanding prior to acceptance.You might have best friends,a couple of them might be close to you than you think.Have you ever wondered what led to the creation of friendships in first place.Was it the common interests or environment.Because,from what I have seen environment plays a very major role in nurturing relationships these days.I have kept a special term for it- "Situation-ship".Once the situation goes away,so does the friendship.But there are some friends with whom we share a lot of things in common.Maybe behavior or personality or character,For ex.But what happens when the things you start having common start depleting..Like for ex:- you might love doing a certain activity with your best friends some time ago but you don't find it interesting now.Do you tell this to them or keep this to yourself.After all,isn't this the entire dilemma of our lives..How much of past you want to carry yourself to future in such a way that present is not tainted by the past?
I've known,seen and heard people who take harsh decisions on themselves once they undergo a heart break or a break up.In those times,they think it will be impossible for them to fall in love again considering what they have undergone now.But as time marches ahead,the same person falls in love again and again and again,probably harder than the previous time.I ask to myself why does this happen.How can the person forget the past so easily and move on to the future?..Isn't it making our past seem worthless?..Maybe this time they look at love from a different perspective when compared to the previous time.Do you know what is the most powerful feeling in this world..It is the feeling of being loved/needed.Ever wonder why people fall in love over and over again.It gives them a feeling of being wanted and needed.Once you understand the other person has started to depend on you for any kind of support,this understanding is more powerful than combination of all the drugs in the world and that is exactly why when the person leaves us we wait for sometime and want to fill it with something else.Some start finding another girl/boy or nurture addictions which may/may not be harmful in long term.You might ask,why are you thinking of this suddenly Gautham?..Did u get reminded of that girl.Now don't go all the way to Bangalore,you fool.She left you and there are goo d chances she's happy elsewhere.Maybe yes,But remember one thing love that has understanding first and acceptance first goes in a long term while the one where acceptance comes first suffers a lot simply because you cannot accept anything in this world without understanding it.Let us hope ours belongs to the first category.
Cheers !!!
A nice warm hii to the one who is reading this.I still do not know who that person will be.The one to whom I will handover my blog and all the posts because this is what is essentially me as many of my acquaintances do not understand me fully(Can I use yet here or does it sound desperate!!).Have you ever felt when there is no one in this entire world to understand and accept you as you are.Now accepting is one thing which can be done without or with less understanding but I always prefer some understanding prior to acceptance.You might have best friends,a couple of them might be close to you than you think.Have you ever wondered what led to the creation of friendships in first place.Was it the common interests or environment.Because,from what I have seen environment plays a very major role in nurturing relationships these days.I have kept a special term for it- "Situation-ship".Once the situation goes away,so does the friendship.But there are some friends with whom we share a lot of things in common.Maybe behavior or personality or character,For ex.But what happens when the things you start having common start depleting..Like for ex:- you might love doing a certain activity with your best friends some time ago but you don't find it interesting now.Do you tell this to them or keep this to yourself.After all,isn't this the entire dilemma of our lives..How much of past you want to carry yourself to future in such a way that present is not tainted by the past?
I've known,seen and heard people who take harsh decisions on themselves once they undergo a heart break or a break up.In those times,they think it will be impossible for them to fall in love again considering what they have undergone now.But as time marches ahead,the same person falls in love again and again and again,probably harder than the previous time.I ask to myself why does this happen.How can the person forget the past so easily and move on to the future?..Isn't it making our past seem worthless?..Maybe this time they look at love from a different perspective when compared to the previous time.Do you know what is the most powerful feeling in this world..It is the feeling of being loved/needed.Ever wonder why people fall in love over and over again.It gives them a feeling of being wanted and needed.Once you understand the other person has started to depend on you for any kind of support,this understanding is more powerful than combination of all the drugs in the world and that is exactly why when the person leaves us we wait for sometime and want to fill it with something else.Some start finding another girl/boy or nurture addictions which may/may not be harmful in long term.You might ask,why are you thinking of this suddenly Gautham?..Did u get reminded of that girl.Now don't go all the way to Bangalore,you fool.She left you and there are goo d chances she's happy elsewhere.Maybe yes,But remember one thing love that has understanding first and acceptance first goes in a long term while the one where acceptance comes first suffers a lot simply because you cannot accept anything in this world without understanding it.Let us hope ours belongs to the first category.
Cheers !!!
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